Portugal. The Man surprises, delights sold-out House of Blues crowd

The lights are dim, the anxious crowd screaming and applauding, the curtains closed.

The TVs around the venue lit up with breathtaking imagery of glaciers and snowy mountains.

Portugal. The Man’s latest single “Got It All (This Can’t be Living Now)” begins to blare through the speakers, but it’s not them playing the music.

A 10-minute theatrical HD music video debuts before the band plays a note.

The video featured lead singer and guitarist John Gourley on some sort of “Into The Wild” adventure in Alaska.

Gourley, wrapped in a fur-hooded parka, is pulled through arctic tundra by a pack of sled dogs. And, without giving away the ending, finds himself on the ground, mouthing words to the song.

After the extended introduction, the four-piece started into a re-envisioned version of an old track from debut album “Waiter, You Vultures!”. Lights flashed as Gourley’s frenetic guitar noodling danced to distorted bass lines.

I’ve watched Portugal. The Man ascent to fame over the years, collecting each album and watching them live a handful of times.

Each performance is different than the last and Saturday was no different.

The Portland, Oregon by way of Wasilla, Alaska indie quartet group releases its sixth studio album “In The Mountain, In The Cloud” July 17 and used its sold-out House of Blues Anaheim audience as ears for many of the new tracks.

The group sprinkled a number of the new songs throughout the hour-and-a-half long performance that include a single song, but 10+ minute encore.

It was clear Portugal was on tour to generate steam for the upcoming release of “In The Mountain”.

Fans sang along to favorites from the popular (and more pop-sounding) album “The Satanic Satanist”, which helped but the band on the map and in 2010, secure a deal with Atlantic Records after two, two-record stints with Fearless and Equal Vision Records, respectively.

The band has progressed a lot since the falsetto vocals matched to drum machine beats and introspective guitar riffs. The sound has opened, Gourley’s voice has progressed — along with the backup singing — and the new stuff sounds wide open, soaring and even a bit grandiose. Somewhere between “Censored Colors” and “Satanist”.

You’ll have to listen to hear what I’m talking about:

Below, videos from the performance!

Being a man means playing the game

Us men have a lot to live up to.

For those of us unlikely to reach the state of bulging biceps and roaring machine guns like Terminator or Rambo, we have to figure out how to uphold our manliness without being enough of a douche to make it obvious.

Nice guys know there is a lot of truth to that whole finishing last statement, and cocky a-holes who get pumped at the gym 24/7  somehow manage to get more “ass” than the average dude, defying all forms of traditionalism and logic.

In the 1950s, the goal was blind dates, sock hops and “going steady.” While there has always been a cat and mouse relationship between guys and girls, “the game” has become the societal norm for our generation: and if you don’t know how to play, good luck getting any.

As the dating scene has turned into a mess of hookups, breakups, and friends with benefits, male-female relationships have turned topsy turvy. Girls who once would relish a man asking to take them out for a date, now run scared at the first sign of commitment or potential clinginess from a new guy.

Here are five key steps you should probably swear to when playing “the game.” If you can throw the handbook out the window and still get what you want, please let me know immediately. For everyone else, pay close attention:

Step 1: Don’t call the next day. For whatever dumb reason, girls have decided that we must wait somewhere around three whole days before showering them with a call. This number will vary depending on who you talk to, but three seems to be a pretty solid consensus. This way, when you get a number on a Friday night and want to take her out the next week, she’ll completely forget who you are by Tuesday when you finally make the call.

But don’t lose hope too fast: if you don’t text directly after meeting, there’s only a 48-hour ban on text messages before the flirxting can began.

Step 2:  It’s not a date. But you still have to pay. When you do get together with a girl, after picking the not-too-nice but not-too-casual bar/restaurant, never once should you mention the word “date.” Sure, you’re taking her out. Yes, you’re hanging out. But “getting dinner” has a much stronger connotation than “grabbing drinks,” so be careful not to come on too fast.

Most importantly, remember to never split the bill – no matter how broke you are. That screams “friend zone” or “he doesn’t have money to afford a girlfriend even if I was going to possibly potentially think of maybe considering ever taking on that title with him.”

Step 3: Don’t order anything girly. As I finish up my first year as a 21-year-old, I’m just now feeling like its OK for me to try fruity drinks like a “Sex On The Beach,” “Fuzzy Navel,” or  a pomegranate margarita. And that’s only when I’ve already got the girl.

In the initial stages, don’t dare try anything that might make her question your sexuality. Girls are always concerned we’re going to be too heterosexual or even homosexual, so keep it simple: beer, jack and coke, 7 and 7, or anything with whiskey. Wine is OK, but not always the best idea to risk it. A girl will learn to love a guy who likes wine, but might be concerned with the college-age male who loves a good pinot griggio when she’s in the mood for a Hef.

Step 4: Let her have the last text. Now, this is one I don’t believe in at all, but still has a lot of importance. While its key to have the last word in an argument, a female seems to thrive off feeling like she doesn’t quite have you.

The pursuit seems to be the drive for all of us, man or woman, whether we know it or not.

When someone’s all over you, even if you’re attracted, it becomes one of those “I’m just not that in to you” moments. Unless you win them with that old-fashioned charm of yours, it seems to be a lost cause. No one likes anyone who’s too anything, so always be wary that you’re in pursuit but not stalking.

Which brings us to the final and most complicated step of them all: the online realm.

Step 5: Don’t become Facebook friends too fast. While most girls are okay with the next-day add, make sure you limit the wall conversation to a maximum of two exchanges from each party. If you get carried away, it will appear you’re using social networking as a crutch and don’t have the balls to call her. Let her know you liked meeting and want to hang out, so its clear the online world is only a mediate between a real-world connection.

Now, this set of rules is far from comprehensive and is only just a start to get you on the right page. Books could be written about the ethical rights in wrongs of romantic encounters (and probably have been), but its key to make a firm impression right away so that things don’t fizzle and you don’t fall into the friends trap.

For, once there, you can never get out and will end up punching yourself in the face when you realize you’re in love with your best friend and that she happens to be dating another guy.